Interview with Jasmin BadAzz

Last week I had the pleasure of sitting down with local talent and up and coming model “Jasmin BADDAZZ”. Below is our interview, I hope you guys enjoy it as much as I did and make sure you check out more of this 26 year old Cuban / Columbian Mami at www.JASMINBADDAZZ.com 

FB fan page: facebook.com/JasminBaddazz
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Email: Jasminbaddazz@gmail.com



The Coach: So Jasmin, how have you been?

Jasmin BadAzz: Better than ever!




The Coach: Glad to hear everything’s good with you, you look great. I read on twitter that you’re working on getting your website up, tell me a little about that?

Jasmin BadAzz: Yes, my site will launch in about 2 weeks or so. Let’s just say my site will be BADDAZZ and nothing less! Let’s keep you in suspense … haha.




The Coach: LOL, can’t wait to see it. How did you get into modeling and how long have you been modeling?

Jasmin BadAzz: This is something I’ve been naturally doing my entire life and it has always chased me and I always managed to get away from it until now and it’s become my passion.




The Coach: Well, I think I speak for men everywhere when I say that we’re happy you FINALLY gave in to modeling. Do you enjoy what you do? Why? What is the best thing about it?

Jasmin BadAzz: I love what I do and it comes natural and best of all I want to inspire the world every day. I love to put on a show and just be me it’s all I know.




The Coach: NICE! What, if any, are the biggest inconveniences of being in your profession?

Jasmin BadAzz: Let’s just say it’s a Garden of Eden out there and BADDAZZ is here to save the day, lol.



The Coach: Love the whole BadAzz persona; do you have role models in the industry? Who?

Jasmin BadAzz: Marilyn Monroe, although she isn't with us anymore her words still inspire people every day including myself and of course Pamela Anderson I love her and always will.

The Coach: How was your first modeling experience?

Jasmin BadAzz: BADDAZZ haha.



The Coach: Lately I’ve been hearing a lot of models say that, they are their own managers and that they really don’t need a manager. Do you think it’s important or necessary to have a “manager” or “agent” in your line of work?

Jasmin BadAzz: Yes, I think it’s extremely important because there are a lot of unnecessary things that can throw a model off and it’s important to keep her at a positive level.




The Coach: Well said. What’s the most important lesson you’ve learned while being in the modeling game?

Jasmin BadAzz: Eat or be eaten!!




The Coach: Love it! Any tips or advice for the girls looking to get in to the modeling game?

Jasmin BadAzz: It takes more than a hot chic to be a model. You have to be born and built for this, takes a negative and a positive to work a battery. Remember that!! So be prepared for both negative and positive. Keep pushing and never stop believing!!




The Coach: “It takes more than a hot chic to be a model” You hit the nail on the head with that one. You know your stuff. I just have a few more fun questions before we wrap this up:

The Coach: What do you think about strip clubs?

Jasmin BadAzz: BADDAZZ!! …... need I say more?!



  The Coach: A girl that’s a fan of strip clubs is a plus, what’s your favorite strip club?

Jasmin BadAzz: Scarlett's Cabaret (Hallandale Beach, FL) all the wayyyy!



The Coach: Where can I get a pair of those BadAzz glasses I’ve been seeing everyone wearing?

Jasmin BadAzz: For now, you can purchase the glasses through pay pal (jasminbaddazz@gmail.com) until the site is up.

The Coach: Personal items like (clothes, car, etc.) you can't live without?

Jasmin BadAzz: My IPhone lol.




The Coach: Type of food you can't live without.

Jasmin BadAzz: Pepsi! My drug! My only addiction in life, lol.



The Coach: I feel your pain; I too am addicted to Pepsi. What type of guy piques your interest?

Jasmin BadAzz: All kinds. I'm very open minded, I can go from a Dwayne Wade/ Reggie Bush to Edward and Jacob from twilight.



The Coach: LMFAO! What are your turn ons?

Jasmin BadAzz: Hmmmn, I have so many! A major turn on for me is a “Man” who knows what he wants and will stop at nothing to get it.



The Coach: I hope you're taking notes guys. What are your turn offs?

Jasmin BadAzz: Cigarette's.



The Coach: What's your ideal/concept of MR.BADDAZZ ?

Jasmin BadAzz: Holds and protects his women with one arm and shoots with the other.



The Coach: So a bad boy is what you’re after, huh? Lol. Does your boyfriend get jealous?

Jasmin BadAzz: Of course.



The Coach: So you have a Boyfriend?! Men everywhere are going to be devastated by this news, lol. What’s your Favorite Song to dance to fresh out of the shower?

Jasmin BadAzz: “Let’s go” Calvin Harris Feat. Neyo.

The Coach: Favorite quote?

Jasmin BadAzz: Fuc* you pay me!



The Coach: Love it! Thank you very much Jasmin for taking time out of your schedule to do this interview with me it’s truly been a pleasure.

Jasmin BadAzz: The pleasure is all mine, you are a trip, lol.



The Coach: Glad you had fun, is there anything else you would like to tell the readers and your fans before we wrap this up?

Jasmin BadAzz: Yes, I’d like to thank my fans and supporters for always believing in me <3 You guys are the best! And remember to check me out on FB, Twitter and Instagram and to check out my website www.JASMINBADDAZZ.com it’s going to be BadAzz!

Once again I’d like to thank my guest  Jasmin BadAzz for taking time out of her schedule to do this interview with me. I hope you guys enjoyed the interview and the pictures of Jasmin’s BadAzz and I’d also like to thank my readers and followers for their ongoing support. Till next time in the words of Miss BadAzz herself “Eat or be Eaten”

Falling in Love with a Stripper or a Porn Star. Yay? or Nay?

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Who to Bring to the Strip Club: The Right and Wrong Company

Whether it’s just you and a buddy, you and a girl, or a group of people, hanging out at the strip club with people you consider friends is the best way to do it. We all love our friends but let’s be real, the strip club isn’t for everyone and choosing who you hang out with at the strip club will make the difference of whether you have a great time or a horrible time.

WRONG TYPE OF COMPANY

Some good examples of the type of company not to bring with you to the strip clubs are:

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  *Mean or violent drunks

·         *Jealous couples

·         *Disrespectful or rude people

·         *Cheap people or people who never have money

·         *People with bad tempers

·         *Dirty or unclean people

·         *Sloppy people

·         *People you can’t trust

Attending the strip club with the type of people mentioned above will guarantee that you will NOT have a good time at the strip club. You will either end up getting ignored and avoided by dancers all night or you might end up getting kicked out and possibly even catch a beating from the bouncers a stripper or a customer. CHOOSE THE COMPANY YOU KEEP WISELY. NOTE: Everything I speak about on this blog is from personal life experiences that I have lived first hand. I’ve had my share of horrible nights and share my experiences with you in hopes that I can spare you having a horrible night at the strip club.

RIGHT TYPE OF COMPANY

Keeping the right kind of company is actually a lot easier and a lot more fun. The right company to keep at the strip club is simple; Basically the opposite of everyone mentioned above. Pretty easy, huh? Layed back, cool people, WITH JOBS, that know how to hold their liquor and have a fun are primarily the qualities you should be shooting for. I’ve also found that bringing a hot date or a group of fun girls that know how to party to the strip club is a magnet for strippers. I am proud to say that I currently have the best team ever, made up of some of the coolest guys and girls I’ve ever met that no matter where we go, we always get the party started and are never afraid of spending money. YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE >;)

Once again I thank you for following my blog and hope that you find the information I provide you with useful. I look forward to your feedback and suggestions. As to my “HOME TEAM” as I like to call you, this entry is dedicated to all of you. Let’s keep doing it big and let the good times roll >;)     

Different Class Levels of Strip Clubs

In my 11 years of attending strip clubs I’ve seen the good the bad and the ugly of strip clubs. I’ve  been to some of the most high end,  fancy shmancy strip clubs all the way down to the bottom of the barrel strip clubs. Believe me when I tell you “I HAVE SEEN IT ALL”. There are thousands of strip clubs out there but they all fall in to one of the three following categories:  Low end, Mid-grade or High Class. Below is a brief explanation of how to identify which grade the strip club you are planning to attend falls into or what grade the strip club you are currently attending falls into.  I must warn you, the results may shock you!!

  

LOW END STRIP CLUBS

Let’s start at the bottom. There are times where you might mistake a GOOD midgrade strip clubs from a high end strip club but you’ll never mistake a low end strip club for anything else than a low end strip club. Let’s start from the inside out, the first thing too look out for is the location. Most low end strip clubs aren’t in the best part of town, but from time to time even I’ve been surprised with strip clubs that I like to describe as “DIAMONDS IN THE ROUGH”  which is either a midgrade or high end strip club located in what’s known as the not best side of town.  This is not common so don’t expect to find that quite often. Moving on to the next thing to keep in mind when trying to identify if a strip club is low end, is the actual building. If the building looks old and rundown, the paint is discolored, most of the neon signs outside don’t work, the parking lot has a strong smell of urine and vomit and they don’t offer valet service. My friends, without even walking through the door I can tell you that, that is a LOW-END STRIP CLUB. “Not convinced yet? “ Ok, let’s walk inside. Low end strip clubs are usually really dark. “But aren’t all strip clubs dark?” You ask. Yes, but keep in mind that the darker the strip club the more they are trying to hide. But what would they have to hide” you ask. Well, believe it or not most strippers that work at low –end strip clubs are pretty low-end looking. They usually are either extremely skinny, too heavy or too old, they usually have a large volume of visible spider veins and cellulites, cesarean scars, bullet wounds, bad unfinished tattoos, midgets and I’ve even came across a stripper once who had had a sex change operation to become a woman. Yikes! Scary scary, stuff my friends.  To make matters worst   most strippers that work at a low-end strip club are the most likely to offer you sexual favors for a certain price. As I mentioned before “any kind of sex at a strip club with a stripper that provides sexual favors for money might not be the best thing for your health.” Aside from the dancers and the actual building conditions, look at the crowd. If the crowd consists of guys that look like they’re interested in hurting you or flashy pimps you’re in a low end strip club. As for an example of a low-end strip club in Miami, I rather keep my silence rather than getting my ass kicked for bad talking any of them, lol.

                                                                     

MID-GRADE STRIP CLUBS

Mid-grade strip clubs are by far my favorite. They’re clean, and have a large variety of strippers ( about 50 at a time to be exact) to choose from. Mid-grade strip clubs are usually the perfect size (not too BIG or too SMALL; JUST RIGHT!) and offer a more personalized experience between a customer and a dancer. Midgrade strip clubs are usually pretty laid back and offer a fun relaxed atmosphere filled with friendly strippers.  Midgrade strip clubs may vary in the sense that some might lean more towards the high end level of strip clubs and some might lean more to the lower end level of strip clubs. As I mentioned before a GOOD midgrade strip clubs may easily be mistaken for a high-end strip club. Never lower your standards , Always aim towards classier ones. Better that it be too classy rather than trashy. If you’re looking for a fun time with some friends a midgrade strip club is definitely the place. A good example of a GOOD mid-grade strip club in Miami would be Booby Trap in Doral or BT's Gentlemen's Club in Sunset.

HIGH END STRIP CLUB   

High-end strip clubs aka the strip club of all strip clubs are known as the giants of strip clubs. These strip clubs are usually well known and are the sizes of warehouses. The caliber of strippers at these strip clubs are usually top notch and look like models and Porn stars. If you are planning to attend one of these clubs make sure you have your money right, because nothing in a High-end strip club is cheap. $50.00 DOLLARS WILL NOT DO and in some cases even $100.00 will not due. While attending one of these clubs be on your best  behavior, as these clubs seem to be a lot stricter. An example of a GOOD High-end strip club would be PlaymatesClub in Coral Gables or Tootsies in Miami Gardens.

Lap Dance Etiquette; What's a Lap Dance, What to Expect from a Lap Dance, and Lap Dance rules.

Lap Dance (Lap.dance): An erotic dance performed on a couch or chair by a naked or topless dancer where straddling, grinding and dancing in a sexual manner occurs over the customers lap.

A lap dance is the closest thing to sex at the strip club with a stripper. The key word of my previous statement would be CLOSEST. Like close but no cigar. I’m not saying that you won’t come across random dancers at random strip clubs that may be willing to pleasure you for a price you later negotiate behind a curtain in the VIP room. But trust me my friends, no matter how tempting this may sound, any kind of sex at a strip club with a stripper that provides sexual favors for money might not be the best thing for your health. If sex is what you’re looking for, the strip club is the wrong place to look for it and even less the wrong place to have it.

Are you still on board for a lap dance? OK, let’s move forward. Before you decide to get a lap dance find out what the strip club or THE HOUSE charges for a lap dance. This is a flat rate that is set up by the strip club or HOUSE and this rate applies for all the strippers. No one stripper should charge you more for a lap dance than another, so if a stripper tries to charge you more than what the HOUSE rate is please make sure that she knows that you know the rates and you’re not a “sucker”. (TIP: DON’T GET CLASSIFIED AS A SUCKER) Later on we’ll get a little more in detail about what strippers consider a “sucker”.

All strip clubs have more or less the same rates when it comes to lap dances. Rates can vary from $25 all the way up to $50 per lap dance. Always keep in mind, that the lap dance fee only covers one song, any additional songs after the first song are an additional $25 or whatever the lap dance fee is for that club. DO NOT EXPECT THE STRIPPER TO TELL YOU WHEN THE SONG IS OVER, THE MOST YOU’LL GET FROM HER, IF YOUR LUCKY IS “DO YOU WANT ME TO KEEP GOING?” NOT “DO YOU WANT ME TO KEEP GOING FOR AN ADDITIONAL $50 PER SONG.” Take my first strip club experience as an example; I see scenarios constantly. A guy goes in for 1 dance, lets the girl dance 5 songs and know owes $125.00 in lap dances! The guy is now upset at the club, upset at the dancer, and feels cheated out of his money. He now has to pay for the dances or refuse and most probably get the crap kicked out of him at the hands of a bouncer or bouncers. Do not let this happen to you. (TIP: DON’T BE AFRAID TO ASK THE DANCERS OR STAFF QUESTIONS, YOUR SILENCE MAY END UP COSTING YOU MONEY OR IN WORSE CASES A BLACK EYE.)

Last but not least there are the rules set forth by the club for lap dances. Lap dance rules are usually the same for all strip clubs. Following these rules will secure you not getting thrown out of the club or in worse cases getting the crap kicked out of you for getting out of line. Below’s a list of the most common and most important rules when it comes to lap dances.

-DO NOT ASK FOR A LAP DANCE IF YOU DO NOT HAVE THE MONEY TO PAY FOR IT.

-BE RESPECTFUL WITH THE DANCERS AT ALL TIMES.

-THE DANCER CAN TOUCH YOU BUT YOU CANNOT TOUCH THE DANCERS. BY TOUCHING I MEAN:

NO GRABBING, NO LICKING, NO MOTOR BOATING, NO SUCKING OR BITING THE DANCERS.

-KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON AT ALL TIMES

-DO NOT EXPOSE URSELF TO THE DANCERS, (KEEP IT IN YOU PANTS, BUDDY!!)

-THERE ARE NO REFUNDS.

So far we’ve gone over what a lap dance is, what to expect from a lap dance, the pricing of a lap dance and the House rules for a lap dance. Now let’s talk about the stripper, erotic dancer or whatever else you want to call them that you choose to get the lap dance from. Don’t let your genitals fool you, “The stripper that you’re most attracted to might be and might not be the best choice for your lap dance.” What do I mean by that, well from my experience some strippers are more GIVING than others. By giving I mean that even though the HOUSE RULES are no touching, some strippers might let you get away with more than others will. Some strippers might let you feel on her tits and ass during the lap dance which is against the HOUSE RULES but if the dancer allows it, it’s ok. Therefore take your time choosing the stripper or strippers that you decide to get a lap dance from. Take your time and talk to them, see which one of them you get the most “giving” feeling from, look for the flirtiest and friendliest. Don’t just flat out ask them which one will let you touch the most in a lap dance. You’re going to sound like a desperate perv and at the same time frighten the girl. Do your research, use your best judgment and once again TAKE YOUR TIME! Oh yeah, and don’t be a jack ass if she was extra giving to you be extra giving to her. (TIP:$3-$5 EXTRA BUCKS CAN GO ALONG WAY IN A STRIPPERS EYES) Now that you’re a lap dance connoisseur sit back, relax, and enjoy ;)

Be Confident at the Strip Club; Self-Confidence is Everything

Self-Confidence is important in everything and anything you do in life. Apply self-confidence not only in the strip club but in your everyday life situations; the results just might flat out amaze you!! Take it from me, I’m not the best looking guy in the world, I don’t look like a body builder body or have wash board abs, I’m not rich, I‘m not famous, and I never went to college. I’m just an ordinary guy that is sure of himself and recognizes that with a little self-confidence and effort I’ve successfully managed to pick up women hotter than I could have ever imagined and FYI, I’VE NEVER PAYED FOR SEX AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU.

Lawyers, paralegals, teachers, law enforcement officers, nurses, office managers, hooters girls, music video models, strippers and amateur porn stars are just a few examples of the girls that I’ve been able to pick-up with just a little self-confidence. Now you’re starting to see how important it is.

How do you expect an attractive woman to notice you or even fuck you if you don’t believe in yourself and that you can do it? Don’t ever overlook a woman you think is out of your league; she’s only out of your league if you believe she is. Forget about if you’ve ever been rejected; forget about any bad or embarrassing years you may have gone through in life or when you were younger. Make a new name for yourself, and build yourself up from the ground up.  Easier said than done, right?? Well, I haven’t always had as much self-confidence as I currently have. It took some positive thinking, analyzing and a little bit of effort and to tell you the truth it didn’t take long and it wasn’t really that hard.

Believe it or not, my experience at strip clubs over the years helped me a lot in building it my self confidence. As I mentioned in my first post, I was once that nervous guy that thought that the only way to get a stripper’s attention was with money. Outside of the strip club I was pretty much the same shy, nervous guy. One day I decided that the next time I was at the strip club I would totally reconfigure my way of thinking and acting.

I walked in confident and sat at the bar, with a goal in  mind that since nobody knew who I was, there was nothing to be nervous about (TIP: SITTING AT THE BAR MAKES YOU SEEM LESS DESPERATE). I played it cool, kept my composure or at least pretended to keep it no matter how HOT I thought the girls were and ordered a drink. I tipped all the girls that came up to me for a tip and when I was offered a lap dance I told them that I wasn’t really interested in getting a dance “I told them I was just hanging out relaxing” but that I would more than gladly tip them every time they came around (TIP: ALWAYS TIP, DON’T BE A CHEAP ASS).

I sat at the bar the whole night and through the evening a few of the dancers that had asked me if I wanted a dance eventually sat next to me and chatted with me for a while. While chatting with a few of them I asked them why they were hanging out with me even though I didn’t want a lap dance and they told me that they appreciated honesty. I was honest with them compared to most guys that usually give them the run around or are just trying to cop a cheap feel. I spent most of the night just sitting at the bar talking shit and joking around with the strippers. For the first time, I was feeling really good about the way my night was going. I finished my night, sat in the car thought back to my previous strip club experiences and looked in my wallet. To my surprise I wasn’t broke, I had a great time and I met a couple of strippers that hung out with me NOT JUST BECAUSE OF MONEY. That’s when I knew I was on to something…

I reflected on that night and continued to learn more and more as I kept visiting strip clubs that sometimes “more is less” and that patience and self-control pays off in the long run. In a woman’s eyes self-control equals confidence. By not giving in to my natural urges like most guys do at strip clubs, I made it seem like I wasn’t in there for the strippers but rather to just hang out and have some drinks. Key-word “SEEM”.

Whether you’re there for the strippers or not, act like if you’re not. Act unimpressed by the fact that there are beautiful naked women walking around you. Act as calm as possible and actually put some effort into being social with her even though she might be topless in front of you. Believe me guys; a little self-control can go a long way. I continued to visit strip clubs once a week and applied the same concept time after time and it wasn’t long before the dancers would welcome me with open arms every time they saw me and not because of what was in my wallet but because they enjoyed my company. (TIP: A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN WANTING TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU A IS A TOTAL CONFIDENCE BOOSTER). Aside from the strippers at the strip club I even started getting attention from the female customers that you usually find at the strip club, even more of a confidence booster. Apparently women love a guy with self-confidence whether she’s a stripper or a lawyer “TRUST ME”. (TIP: SELF-CONFIDENCE IS THE KEY TO PICKING UP WOMEN AT THE STRIP CLUB OR ANY WHERE ELSE.)

In conclusion, I went from being a shy nervous wreck with not much confidence to the cocky SOB I am today. I can currently say that I feel confident enough to walk up to any woman, no matter how attractive she is and be able to engage in conversation without a problem. I’m not going to say I win’ em all but I have a great track record and have picked up women that I would have never imagined I’d be able to pick up. Like I said before, “confidence isn’t everything” but it is one of the main ingredients when it comes to being successful with women. Start off slow and every time you go out ANYWHERE try to exercise appearing confident even if you don’t feel very confident. The grocery store, the gym, a night club, EVERYWHERE. Start doing this ASAP, you are currently wasting valuable time that you should be using to hook up with women.